tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458786710697760224.post2369249253440014584..comments2023-09-07T03:46:07.252-07:00Comments on Or Words to that Effect...: It was a beautiful dreamrandyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16659230610436922709noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458786710697760224.post-62352222826455026342012-12-01T18:23:41.949-08:002012-12-01T18:23:41.949-08:00Hi Scottie;
I got a laugh about how people may c...Hi Scottie;<br /> I got a laugh about how people may come up to their coworkers and say "I have sex with someone of the opposite gender!" The silliness of it made me laugh, and then I realized that it made just as little sense to state the other side of that story. <br /> I don't know if I can ever go back to that happy time. It was special, and even that particular beach is gone - got washed out in a storm. But, I hate to think the dream is all I have left.<br /> I look forward to seeing your favorite beach :)<br /><br />hugs;<br />randyrandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16659230610436922709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458786710697760224.post-49222409795650856922012-12-01T11:59:08.396-08:002012-12-01T11:59:08.396-08:00Hello Randy. Sorry to take so long to respond to ...Hello Randy. Sorry to take so long to respond to this post. I want you to know something. Your grand how you are, how ever you want to be. The time of the idea of a closet is long over...it is not real. <br /><br />We each live our lives. We do the best we can. To assume that what works for one person will work for everyone else is stupid to the extreme. no two people are the same, no two people have the same feelings and needs. So to say that we all need to act the same is just silly.<br /> <br />I love your dream, the beach is some where I wish to go with you and if you come here I will make it a point to take you to several beaches and hope they can rekindle your dream. But the idea of that summer, of the way you want to be lives in you, as it does me. <br /><br />Randy each of us has a different set of circumstances, a different set of needs. To say we should all act one way is....more than silly.<br /><br />I can do what I do because I live where I live, my needs work out with it, and I have no worries it will cost me my home, job, life.<br /><br />I wouldn't ask someone who could be killed by just announcing they are gay to come out and state such, I wouldn't ask someone who needs his job and would lose it to come out. Silly. <br /><br />Look the "straight" people I know don't walk up to me and announce that they have sex with people of the opposite sex, so I see no need to go around announcing I have sex with someone if my sex. However just this last week a older cleaning lady, who was moaning about the work she does asked me about my "wife". I told her my spouse worked here with me. She went on about how happy she and I should be..and I told her...HIM...she stopped..what..HIM..my spouse is a HIM...She stopped and then looked at me strange and walked away...but she insisted on talking about my "wife" so I corrected her misconception. I can do that because I can NOT be fired, I can NOT be discriminated against for it and I am liked a lot by my director and my senior nurses...who would rush to my aid should it become a problem. <br /><br />So I am at my age safe. Not that I always was, but even in the military as a private, I was dating my Sargent in charge of me...so again I was sort of protected. <br /><br />So what is good for one is not good for another....that is important to remember. HugsScottiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06355524255020038817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458786710697760224.post-12947985657471790142012-11-25T15:03:08.103-08:002012-11-25T15:03:08.103-08:00Thank you, Sammy;
I had a conversation with my p...Thank you, Sammy;<br /> I had a conversation with my parents this weekend about gun control. Personally, at my size, I really don't need a gun so much as, say, a woman living alone in a rough area. But, does that give me the right to decide she shouldn't have one? Unfortunately, there seems to be many who have no horse in the race deciding the outcomes of things, like NOM. Why should they care if gay men want to marry? Do they think an unmarried gay man is more likely to fall for one of them, then? It's crazy.<br /> Thank you for your care and hopes.<br />hugs!<br />randyrandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16659230610436922709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458786710697760224.post-17092530122034328082012-11-25T14:58:14.510-08:002012-11-25T14:58:14.510-08:00Hi Jay;
You have the bravery I wish I had, wish ...Hi Jay;<br /> You have the bravery I wish I had, wish I could make that step. May our dreams come true soon.<br /><br />hugs;<br />randy<br />randyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16659230610436922709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458786710697760224.post-65324721434326877552012-11-25T14:36:59.548-08:002012-11-25T14:36:59.548-08:00Hello Randy
You certainly deserve life your own wa...Hello Randy<br />You certainly deserve life your own way, and if the NOM and the other haters don't like it, then that's their problem, and should never be yours. I'm probably - no, definitely - a very poor role model for 'living the dream', given how difficult to attain my particular dream is, but I hope very much you get the chance to live yours.<br /><br />Love & best wishes<br />Sammy BSammy Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11257879009293024225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8458786710697760224.post-15460629525286551182012-11-25T10:37:04.114-08:002012-11-25T10:37:04.114-08:00I think we all share that dream. I know I do. I re...I think we all share that dream. I know I do. I remember carefree teenage years, but still in the closet, as I have been up until a little over 2 years ago. But a true relationship still eludes me, so my dream isn't finished...yet...<br />Peace <3<br />JayAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com