Hello everyone;
Jay pointed this link out to me in his comment. I am ever thankful. Please look into these two posts and tell me what you think. I just don't know what to say - there just has to be a better way!
http://anarchistsoccermom.blogspot.com/2012/12/thinking-unthinkable.html
http://boyboxrebellion.blogspot.com/2012/12/mental-health.html